Renowned Nollywood actress Mary Njoku has ignited a meaningful dialogue about the essence of marriage, challenging the prevalent belief that it should be viewed as an achievement.
Taking to her Instagram account, the esteemed thespian delivered a candid expression, shedding light on the societal pressures women face regarding marriage.
In her heartfelt message, Njoku criticized the misconception that marriage alone equates to success, emphasizing instead the significance of finding the right life partner.
She underscored the importance of celebrating the journey of discovering compatibility and building a fulfilling relationship, rather than merely striving for a marital status.
In her post, Mary Njoku passionately urged married women to reconsider the prevailing notion that marriage should be seen as an achievement. “Enough! Marriage is not an achievement. Finding the RIGHT partner is,” she emphasized, calling for a shift away from pressuring singles into matrimony.
Highlighting the discontent prevalent in many marriages, Njoku pointed to societal expectations as a significant source of unhappiness. “Over 60% of couples claim happiness often because of societal expectations,” she revealed, shedding light on the detrimental impact of external pressures on marital bliss.
Njoku shared the poignant story of Ifeoma, illustrating the consequences of succumbing to societal pressure to marry. “That was how Ifeoma was pushed to marry nonsense,” she lamented, recounting Ifeoma’s struggles, including frequent hospital visits and conflicts arising from her unhappy marriage.
Despite Ifeoma’s hardships, Njoku underscored the irony of married individuals criticizing single women for their marital status, advocating for empathy and space for singles to make significant life decisions without external pressure.
“Rest Biko. Focus on the Economy! And Let the singles BREATHE,” Njoku concluded, urging for a refocusing of attention towards personal fulfillment and granting individuals the freedom to pursue happiness on their own terms.