Actress Auntie B has stressed the importance of marriage while cautioning against pursuing it to one’s detriment.
The renowned actress, known for her roles in popular TV series like Concert Party and Efiewura, said this on Thursday, July 6, 2023 in an interview with the media.
“I am not married at the moment,” she disclosed.
“Marriage is important, it’s good,” she said. “When by God’s grace, someone comes into your life and you get married, hold and cherish it dearly.”
However, “if you are not yet married, don’t kill yourself for it,” she added.
She shared examples of marriages she is aware of, one that ended in less than eight days and another where the person endured years of distressing experiences, likening it to the relentless battering of sea waves, despite maintaining a facade of normalcy in public.
“This person does not look [as good] as they did before marriage,” she noted, stressing that “It’s two things: if the opportunity comes, fine, but if it doesn’t, at this point in my life, I’m not bothered.”
In a near-comic remark, she said she had “tasted all there is from super small to super big” so much so that “if, naturally, the act [sex] was done through the mouth, I’d have lost all my teeth by now.”
She clarified: “It’s not like I double date or I am promiscuous but I have tasted it all before so if I am not yet married, I won’t kill myself.”
“Ultimately, may God’s will be done,” she added. “So, if God brings it, I’ll hold it and nurture it.”
She said “the man who will be lucky” to marry her will have such a great experience.
Auntie B intimated that she knows how to handle marriage and “pamper a man to get pampering from same”.
Auntie B advises women to prioritize pampering their men to prevent losing them to competitors who excel in that aspect.
She emphasizes that the foundation of a successful marriage lies in truth and understanding.
Additionally, she clarifies that she is not overly selective when it comes to choosing male partners.
“God created all men so I’m fine with whatever I get,” she added. “What matters is the level will correspond to mine so that when we’re in bed, everything will be great.”
She suggests that even if things do not go as expected, there are various intimate styles to explore. In the worst-case scenario, she believes it is her responsibility to nurture and appreciate her partner without complaining.
When asked about the possibility of marrying football superstar Asamoah Gyan, considering her publicly expressed feelings for him, she did not provide a direct response.