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Are you content with your relationship?


Human nature is negatively bias, selfish and competitive.

We often prioritize our own desires and needs, overlooking the positive aspects of our relationships.

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Instead of focusing on what’s working well, we tend to dwell on the shortcomings, always yearning for more regardless of the source.

This tendency is exacerbated in our materialistic society, where one’s worth is often equated with possessions. As a result, many struggle to find contentment and overlook the blessings bestowed upon them by a higher power.

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Consider a scenario where a woman contemplates leaving her partner due to his lack of time for her. However, upon reflection, she realizes that his demanding job is the cause of his limited availability. Despite this, he remains honest and faithful, providing her with financial security, gifts, travel opportunities, a comfortable home, and romantic gestures whenever possible. It’s during counseling sessions that she begins to appreciate all she has.

Being content doesn’t mean lacking ambition; rather, it involves gratitude for what one has and patience for what may come. It stems from a deep acceptance of life’s circumstances.

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A heart contented is akin to a tranquil sea amidst turbulent storms.

The danger of discontentment

A discontented lover views everything through a negative lens, perpetually dissatisfied with their relationship. They tend to downplay positive experiences while magnifying minor grievances, leading them to question their partner’s suitability.

Such a partner overlooks potential opportunities and fails to appreciate the value in small gestures. In doing so, they inadvertently sabotage their chances for success.

Discontentment spreads like a contagious germ, affecting every aspect of life including work, friendships, and especially marriage. When one partner harbors discontent, it infects the other, leading to bitterness, frustration, selfishness, hostility, and an unwillingness to forgive. This toxic cycle can spell the beginning of the end for a relationship.

Finding contentment

Contentment cannot be found in your partner or material possessions; it emanates from within and is nurtured by gratitude and faith.

Begin by recognizing the inherent goodness in yourself and your partner. Self-love is fundamental to a healthy relationship, fostering peace and commitment.

Set realistic expectations, understanding that perfection is unattainable. Embrace your differences and approach challenges with honesty, appreciation, and forgiveness.

Avoid comparing your relationship to others, as appearances can be deceiving. Focus on nurturing your own bond rather than seeking greener pastures elsewhere.

Accept your financial situation with contentment, recognizing that money alone cannot buy happiness. Work diligently and trust in God’s provision, knowing that true wealth lies in relationships and inner peace.


Both partners must cultivate contentment within themselves for a successful relationship. In a study conducted in the United States, 80 percent of respondents cited mutual contentment as the key to their marital happiness.

Rather than yearning for wealth, prioritize the richness of your relationship. True happiness can be found in the quality of your connection, not material abundance. It’s better to have a little and live in harmony than to possess great wealth amidst turmoil.

Embrace contentment as a source of great fulfillment. When you have food, shelter, and clothing, acknowledge God’s provision and be grateful. Count your blessings and recognize the abundance that surrounds you.

Adapt to both prosperity and adversity, maintaining gratitude and avoiding bitterness or selfishness. A thankful heart attracts blessings and enriches your relationship.

Appreciate your partner for who they are and cherish the love you share. Give thanks in all circumstances, including the joy found in your relationship.


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