You’re generally calm
Even the most emotionally mature person will lose their cool from time to time, but they’re also more likely to be in control of their feelings on a regular basis than those who lack maturity. They don’t yell or have a violent reaction when things don’t go their way. Their demeanour is usually calm, cool, and col
lected.
You are action-oriented
It can feel good to complain to a friend about a specific situation at work; there’s even reason to believe a good vent session can help with one’s mental health. But complaining can quickly turn into an issue if a person is unwilling to take action to correct whatever is happening to them. People who ask “how can I improve this situation?” are truly mature.
You’re optimistic
It’s unrealistic to expect that everything will be sunshine and roses every day or that you can get to where you want to go in life without putting in some blood, sweat, and tears, but those who are emotionally mature know there’s always reason to believe good things are on the way. That optimism can be found through the support of others, through faith in a specific entity, or from within.
You share credit
People should acknowledge when they do something incredible, but those who are boastful or forget to acknowledge those who have helped them get to where they are lack a truly mature spirit. Giving credit where credit is due matters and shows a person is conscious of how others feel. It’s also good for one’s image.
You don’t hold on to the past
It can be easy to saddle oneself with the “what ifs” of past mistakes, but doing so also keeps a person from truly evolving or moving forward with their life, goals, and relationships. Science even shows regret is one of the most negative emotions anyone can experience. Thinking in terms of future opportunity instead of past failures is a sign someone can grow and evolve.
You set boundaries
There may be no greater sign of emotional maturity than being able to set boundaries to protect oneself from negative circumstances or situations. This could involve an individual cutting toxic people out of their life or speaking their mind when someone says something that goes against their value system. They respect and stand up for themselves.
You are resilient
There are so many ways one can experience setbacks or disappointments in life, and there are a multitude of challenges everyone will face (because of, or perhaps in spite of, their circumstances). Mustering up the courage to push through everything—every hardship, every battle, every issue—and finding the resilience to continue to move forward when even the possible feels impossible is not just mature, it’s heroic.
Source: msn.com
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