Two prominent marriage counselors have publicly disagreed with Pastor Mensa Otabil‘s views on wealth and marriage.
In a recent sermon, Pastor Otabil, founder of the International Central Gospel Church (ICGC), suggested that waiting to be wealthy before marrying is a flawed approach.
He shared his personal experience of beginning his marriage with limited financial resources, asserting, “If you’re waiting to be rich before you marry, then your head is not working properly. You don’t want to marry, but you’re sleeping together. You want what’s reserved for marriage without going through the process. Be bold and marry.”
However, Counselor George Lutterodt, speaking on Class 91.3FM’s Class Morning Show, countered this perspective. He argued that a man should be financially secure before entering marriage, stating, “No woman should allow a poor man to marry her. A man who cannot feed himself three times a day or provide adequate shelter is not ready for marriage.” Lutterodt insisted that financial stability is crucial for a man to qualify for marriage.
Counselor Charlotte Oduro also contributed to the discussion on the same show, acknowledging the importance of financial stability.
She emphasized that a man should have a certain level of financial comfort to ensure the well-being of his partner, advising, “At least if you want to marry someone’s daughter, ensure you’re in a comfortable position and capable of taking responsibility, as marriage comes with many demands.”
This debate highlights the ongoing conversation about balancing love and financial readiness in relationships.